Abortion
You read again and again about abortion. Don't you ever wonder why it's such a big topic? Simply because how much controversy there is over it. "It's the woman's choice” or "it is murder". Though you can say I see both sides to the argument I'm very against abortion. There's one way I'd allow abortion if I was in charge, that's only if the mother will die during the process, that's because she didn't choose to kill the child purposely. Personally in that case I don't know that I could even do that. Murder is murder, no matter how much you try to sugar coat it... Not if you were raped, give the baby up for adoption in that case and certainly not if you got pregnant because you were being idiotic. The child doesn't get the chance to say whether or not it wishes to live or die. Sure it's not a grown up, or a born baby but it's still living and breathing, it still has a life and it still has feelings. This website has another persons feelings on abortion. They realize the brutality and pointlessness of getting one.
As a mother going through an abortion it's extremely painful. You can't sit without tearing up, lie down or even stand without wanting to scream. The whole process is painful for a very long time, physically. Mentally and emotionally the pain never subsides. This website explains the minor and serious effects of abortion. You may believe you're able to handle it, but once you do what you can't take back you realize it was a mistake that you can't seem to let go of, that has made you fearful of living the rest of your life. Not only that but through abortion other things can happen where you will deeply regret it, like becoming infertile. Now that you've gotten rid of one child stand up and take a bow because now you have a chance of never having your own children again. You can become very ill, it could be a simple illness or serious illness'. Through the shots and removal of the embryo and such you'll endure much physical pain, for the rest of your life you'll endure emotional trauma. Here is a website stating the physical, emotional and spiritual effects of having an abortion.
I know someone who has gone through with an abortion, she tells me day in and out that she regrets it, that it's the biggest mistake of her life and she nearly cries herself to sleep every night because she can't imagine her life without her other half that she lost because of her irresponsibility. She wishes that she was never irresponsible to begin with but she rather have the child than have done what she has. Here is a mother whom received an abortion, about how she regrets it. She's very close to me and because of her actions I witnessed how much trauma its caused not only her but her family, the fathers family and all their friends. To them it's a true scar placed upon their heart. Not a day goes by they don't think of it, not a day goes by they don't regret it and not a day passes where they wish they could share their lives with the one they lost. Most importantly not a day goes by where my friend feels like she is a murderer who belongs in jail for killing her own child. She wonders what the child could have been, the curer of cancer or the twinkle in her eye. Not a single day of their lives pass where they wish they can undo what can't be undone. 
Why is it that the child can't have a say in it, well because they physically can't, but is that their fault? They don't get to choose whether or not they want to live or die, whether or not they get to have a future that can positively affect the lives of many people. They could be the curer of cancer or the person to find world peace. Here is a website explaining in more depth why it is not fair, how it is not the child's fault. It simply isn't fair that they didn't get the chance that you got, what if you didn't get a chance? What if your parents made that mistake of getting an abortion with you, where would you be, well you simply wouldn't be. Everything happens for a reason, if it wasn't meant to happen then it wouldn't have. Abortion is man made, God didn't create abortion, God created the child that was meant to have a purpose that man has taken away. It's like changing God's plans.
My biggest pet peeve about abortion is the fact that a mother could kill her unborn child. Sure they weren't born yet but they're still alive, after that it is murder. Simply murder. How can you kill your own child? How can you live with yourself after knowing you just created something so important and then purposely killed it. Purposely. Not even for a reason important enough but because your irresponsible or selfish. Those whom give into abortion are simply selfish, they care of themselves. The child isn't what they want so they kill it, without even the slightest regard of the child's feelings. Here is another essay of why abortion is wrong and should be illegal.
I do have to say I have sympathy for those who were raped, it was not there fault, but answer me this...WAS IT THE CHILDS? Everything happens for a reason, and by you saying I have no sympathy I can easily say back that you have no sympathy or belief in God, he creates the child for a purpose. If you do not believe in Him that is different. I do not care if a couple will be emotionally traumatized or can not financially support it, if they were that concerned they would be safe about sex or not have sex at all, it became their responsibility not the child's burden. And oh well if they end up in a orphanage, i can almost guarantee they rather live there or with another family then not have a life at all. Then to be murdered....I said there is one option for abortion, and that is if the mother dies during the process and that is only because the mother didn't choose to murder her flesh and blood, she had no choice. Everyone else has a choice...Just because it was not their fault it was not the child's either.....its pure selfishness, taking one's life to better your own.
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I like how you stated "Murder is Murder". I am very much against abortion, it is a sick and vile way to cover up your idiotic pretenses. I think that no matter how you get pregnant you should keep the baby, because there are couples in the U.S. that can't produce and people look towards adoption. I really like the way you get your point that Murder is Murder, it doesn't matter if your a teen, you shouldn't kill your baby because it didn't do anything wrong.
Very powerful blog. : ),
Jason.
I agree with you that abortion is not the answer when women become pregnate and don't want the baby. I also say that how can you throw away something that is made up of half of you... has your blood, eyes, ears, nose it doesn't matter you will still be killing half of you.
I agree with you on being against abortion and you have a very good quote in her that says "Murder is murder, no matter how much you try to sugar coat it... Not if you were raped, give the baby up for adoption in that case and certainly not if you got pregnant because you were being idiotic." this is a great way to explain why abortion is a wrong thing to do
great job on the post.
I really agree with you I hate womwn/girls who have Abortions. Abortion is wrong it would be consider murder for killing a young child. We should make Abortions illegal because it murder.
You know what, i agree that abortion isn't the best idea, but i believe in some cases its okay. What if your body wasn't capible of bearing a child. I think people blow this topic way over board. If you're against it, cool. Don't try and pressure your views on everyone. If you're for it, sweet. I think to each its own. I personally am for it, because i know people who have been in situations where that really is the only case. But i'm not trying to make everyone believe the same as I do, i just kinda keep quiet about it because it can start some pretty heavy conversations. Im not saying you're wrong at all, i agree with somethings you say. I believe that some people just blow it WAY out of proportion. I believe it is the womens right. It shouldn't be made illegal, because really.. in some cases it just can be nessescary.
I really agree wqith you on that subject. True that we have to hear both sides of the story, but "murder is murder". No matter what the mother's excuse is, the child doesnt have to pay for her mistakes. I really liked your whole blog, and the pictures were really nice, and brought up more to the topic!!! I really feel that abortion should stop, and children shouldnt pay for the parents acctinons!!!
I believe women should be able to have an abortion if they want. Its up the the women though. Women should be able to have an abortion if they were raped or if they absolutely dont want a child. I also believe it is wrong to have an abortion because its killing an innocent life. I am neutral, I am neither against or for abortion.
"It's the woman's choice” or "it is murder".
Both of these statments are true about abortion, but it is up to a woman weather or not she wants to bring a baby into this world. I dont agree with abortion if you were being careless, but sometimes thats what as to be done. if a coupple is not ready or has the means to support the baby then why bring it in to this world already filled with babbbies in foster homes and if they didnt give it up then they would have to with out and as a child thats not good for health. Also what if a coupple did get pregnat by mistake but they went through all the porcaussinos not to, and if having that baby ment a emitonal strain on the coupple what should they do? simply give it up? No!
"Murder is murder, no matter how much you try to sugar coat it... Not if you were raped,"
I have to dissagree with you though. murder is murder but put yourself in a womens shoes who has gotten raped and ended up prego. You mean to tell me you would want that guys baby growing inside of you, and then go through labor for a baby who you didnt want and are not going to keep. How woud you handle that? i dont meant to get rude but it seems as if you have no emotions and sympthany for other women it is up to a women to bring a life into this wrold. I would rather let and embryo go then having a thousnad babbies in foster homes not getting what they need.
Thanks for your comment Ciara, I appreciate your view. I'm reposting my reply to your comment here (though I fear that it might end with some kind of disagreement and argument).
As to what you had to say, I feel that your view is actually inaccurately simplifying the issue. The statement "murder is murder" is very black and white in the context of your opinion but it makes absolutely no room for circumstance. By your same logic, a soldier in war "intending to kill" the enemy is also a murderer by virtue of the simplification.
I hope you'll excuse me for saying so but I think it's a little naive to view the world this way - and this goes back to my "we don't live in a vacuum" statement. It's hard to prove a solid point like the one you propose when so many real-time living examples exist to give weight to the contrary (notwithstanding that examples exist to prove your point as well). I'm sure I'll get a better idea of your views if I check out your link so hopefully there's more to it than that.
One of the things that this "Lake of Fire" documentary points out is that a lot of doctors that provide abortion service are being killed by extremists. It's hard to associate someone with a pro-life movement that is willing to assassinate to prove their point, and doubly hard to find their point of view credible at all.
I agree with TDN about inaccurately simplifying the issue. Statistically, many women have had abortions and I'm guessing you know some of them. This is an issue that is very personal, so many women choose not to even discuss it with close friends or family. If you truly believe it to be murder, than why is it OK if the woman is raped? I believe it's my decision alone with my husband's -- a fetus is not a viable human, it's part of my body. No matter what the law says, some women will always choose an abortion. Do we want it to be only those women who can afford to travel to where they are legal, or do we want women to risk their lives going to an alley abortionist? I certainly don't, which is why I will always fight to keep abortion legal.
I can tell you've really thought a lot about this issue. Your experience with your friend surely has shaped your opinion, and lends credibility to your position because she so often tells you about her regret. I think that what is unfortunate is that we too often want the easy way out. It's almost like the scene in Monster's Inc., where they think the door they are going thru will lead them back to the little girl, but in reality it leads to a snowy waste land. The mental anguish an abortion can cause throughout the rest of a woman's life is like this snowy wasteland. What is sad is that she really thought she chose the right door....
I really, really admire the women who become pregnant but choose to have the baby - either raising the child or giving the child to others to adopt. I applaud you for speaking up for those who cannot speak up for themselves. Keep up the good work!
I think under the circumstances of rape, women should have a choice if they want to abort the child or not. Even though it is not what we would want them to have an abortion, the physiological effects of bearing the child of their rapist would be too much to unbearable for some women.
Hey Ciara, I really liked the topic you chose and the point that you are trying to make. People really need to know the facts about abortion before they say what side they are on. Lots of people will say that they are on a side and might not even know anything about abortion. I also like the point you made when you said that murder is murder. An abortion is murder. You can’t say that killing a living baby is not murder; even if the baby has not been born yet. I also think that it is important for people to know the emotional regret that comes along with an abortion. People may think that an abortion is an easy way out, but once they have an abortion they can never take it back.
I agree with you and I am against abortion too! I think you r blog will inspire people to keep their unborn babies rather than get an abortion. It has a lot of great information and the pictures of the babies are really cute!
I agree with you on that. It is wrong; people should not have abortions useless it saves the mother. It seems though that people don’t think through what they are about to do. I think that it is important to raise the awareness of the affects of having an abortion are to a person mentally and emotionally.
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